Saturday, May 28, 2016

Seraphene

Another lovely story reblogged from "Through My Porthole".  I had the same experience in Sierra Leone, wondering when a marvelous young man was going to have surgery, only to discover he already had!

I completely underestimated the emotional impact of meeting the Malagasy teenager who has my plasma pumping through her veins. Suddenly my experiences with Mercy Ships went to a whole new level of personal investment.  While volunteering and paying for the privilege is no longer a surprise,  the opportunity to donate my own blood to one of our patients touched me deeply.

My heart went out to Seraphine when I finally met her a few days after her surgery. I had to ask her nurse if Seraphine already had the operation she came for.
Seraphine after her surgery. Pic Justine Forrest
Seraphine after her surgery. Pic Justine Forrest
You see, Seraphine is one of the patients that we helped surgically, but not as much as we hoped to. She has a benign tumour covering her facial nerves.  If our surgeons had removed the complete growth it would have threatened and probably seriously diminished her ability to eat, drink and speak. In consultation with Seraphine and her Mum, while a great weight was lifted from her face, some of the benign tumour was left.

Like most of our patients, Seraphine came to the hospitalship hoping for a perfect outcome. She desperately wished the humiliating tumour which brought her so much ridicule would be completely removed from her life. But we couldn’t do it without destroying the quality of the life she has.

I told Seraphine because we shared the same blood, that we are like sisters. It was apparent from her very timid responses and fearful attempts to make eye contact that she has suffered greatly from rejection. She didn’t expect kindness from strangers.
Saying goodbye to Seraphone and her Mum. Pic Catrice Wulf
Saying goodbye to Seraphine and her Mum. Pic Catrice Wulf
As I spent time with her,  I thought of our own daughter who developed a cyst over her eye when she was a baby. The local New Zealand hospital popped it out before she was even a year old. If we weren’t from a country with easily accessed and free/ affordable healthcare, this could easily have been our daughter; with a disfiguring cyst that shattered her sense of self worth.

Seraphine was treasured and nurtured by the crew during her weeks of recovery on board. This 15-year-old will never be classically pretty, or even ‘normal’ looking. She doesn’t have a happily-ever-after story. But gentle, sweet Seraphine is dearly loved – by her Mum, and by us, and we hope she understands most of all that she is precious to God. Would you pray with me – just for a minute – that she does?

                               Africa Mercy crew members from all over the globe donated                                                                                                171 units of blood                                                                      to our patients during this field service
Crew donate blood for patients
Crew donate blood for patients

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