Thursday, November 29, 2012

Another story from the good ship . . .

"Volunteer nurse Melinda Kaney joyfully exclaimed, “The eight-plate surgery to straighten Fooday’s legs worked wonderfully!” Aladji, Fooday’s father, was so grateful that his eldest son’s journey to healing was complete. Fooday would now return to school and perhaps, one day, be a teacher – something his mother Yakha dreamed about for her son.
Fooday’s start in life was tenuous, Aladji recalls. “Fooday was born prematurely. He was so tiny and weak, we didn’t think he would live. All of our family and the neighbors prayed for Fooday to pull through. By the grace of God, he did.”
When Fooday began walking at eighteen months, his parents noticed that his legs were bowed. The family’s meager income wasn’t enough to pay for the herbal poultices offered by the traditional healer. In desperation, Aladji resorted to beggging to raise money for Fooday’s sessions. Sadly, the traditional medicine did not help – the abnormal curve in Fooday’s legs worsened.
Yakha explains how much they worried for their son. “Fooday had pain that kept him crying all night. But worse was the shame and hurt that I knew Fooday would go through with bent legs.” Yakha’s fears were well-founded. When Fooday started school at age five, other children continually laughed at him. After a few steps Fooday’s unsteady gait would falter, and he would fall. With each tumble Fooday faced another barrage of insults. Aladji and Yakha were heartbroken. The only safe place for Fooday was at home. He could no longer go to school.
Praying continually, Yakha and Aladji asked God for a miracle of healing for Fooday. Aladji clearly recalls the morning that their prayers were answered. “There was an announcement on the radio that a hospital ship was coming to provide free medical care. I heard that the hospital did surgeries for children with bent legs. Yakha and I were overjoyed.”
Within three weeks Fooday was onboard the Africa Mercy hospital ship for his free surgery. A small metal plate, in the shape of a figure eight, was attached to the outside of each of his leg bones. The eight-plate, designed to slowly correct the bow in Fooday’s legs, would also allow the bones to grow straight in the future. When successful, this technique avoids a much larger operation that requires the bones to be broken and reset. 
Now, only one step remained until everyone could breathe a complete sigh of relief. After doing their straightening job, the eight-plates would need to be removed. Otherwise, the legs would bow out the other way! So, over the next eighteen months, while back at home, Fooday’s legs gradually straightened. His eventual return to school was a cause for amazement as his schoolmates could already see a dramatic change in his legs.
At the eighteen-month point, Aladji and Fooday eagerly travelled to the Africa Mercy hospital, now docked in Conakry, Guinea, for his final surgery.
Fooday’s reunion with nurse Melinda was filled with excitement, hugs and giggles. “Melinda took such good care of me when I had my first surgery, and I always hoped I would see her again. Now, here she is giving me the best hug of my life!” he declared.
As it turned out, Fooday’s eight-plate removal was not the only step in store for the family. To Aladji’s surprise, Mercy Ships had a greatly appreciated treatment in store for him too. For years Aladji had focused entirely on Fooday’s healing, while ignoring the pain of his own four decayed teeth and infected gums. At the same time that Fooday was in the Africa Mercy hospital, Aladji had an appointment at the Mercy Ships Dental Clinic. Aladji, with the tormenting dental pain completely gone, shared a warm smile with Fooday back at the ship. Aladji whispered in his son’s ear, “Fooday, thanks to Mercy Ships, it is happy teeth for me and back to school for you!! God is good!”




Written by Joanne Thibault
Edited by Nancy Predain

Not one, not two, but . . .

THREE!  Yes, I am on my third cast this week - and it's only Thursday!  Monday morning my very wonderful cast cover made specifically for showering in got a very small hole - smaller than a pencil eraser.  And in that very small hole, water poured in and soaked my cast!  After spending a day with a blow dryer attached to my toes, I decided maybe I should call the doctor on Tuesday and see if there was something else I should be trying.  I called the doctor and the doctor said, "New cast.  Can you be here at 1?"  I said, "Sure".  Know that it was 11:58 a.m. and I can't drive.  But in only three (see a theme going through here?) phone calls, I had a driver and three hours later, I was home with my new hot green cast - that was too short in the toes, probably by about 3 centimeters - just short enough to make me rock when I walked and throw my hip off.  So I called the doctor about 8 p.m. Tuesday night and got a call back Wednesday morning.  If I could come in on Thursday morning, they would put on a new cast AND take my stitches out and I wouldn't have to come back for five more weeks!  Note:  new word - five.  Double that and you'll see I had ten stitches taken out and a new hot green cast (it is Christmas!) put on!  The moral of the story:  God IS in control!  Glory!   

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Interior Screening . . .

The ship has sent out a team to do interior screening.  They're traveling the back roads of Guinea, looking for those whose lives can be changed on the good ship Mercy.  Here's Laura's story:

 The whole purpose of this trip is to find surgical patients, but we came with limited surgical slots, a few handfuls of hope to share among hundreds.

Because these hours of dirt roads in between towns, a minor inconvenience or adventure for me, are the difference in medical access for thousands.

And they came, as the sun began to rise.  Young and old, wearing their shame under a carefully wrapped lappa or nursing it along on crutches or hidden under a keffiyeh.  There were the cleft palates and noma patients I rejoiced to find, a boldly written MAXFAX across the top of the pink screening sheet.  An alcohol-cleaned finger held out in a prayer that the HIV test would be negative and the immune system strong enough for surgery.  A tentative smile that danced in brown eyes with a carefully held patient card - the golden ticket for a screening slot on ship and a chance at surgery.

And there were the moments that ripped my heart in half again and again and again.  A double line on an HIV test, a plastic surgery desperately needed but no spaces in the surgery schedule and a waiting list already too long, a medical illness with no medical doctors or medication available to help, a brand-new baby in my arms and no orthopedic slots to straighten tiny deformed legs.

 

From town to town the schedule steadily filled with the carefully reserved spots I had counted out for each location.  From town to town they came, and the need was great.  My own wisdom could not possibly have been enough to make the choices on which so many lives depended, and I was left in freefall - trusting in the wisdom and guidance that could only come from the One with the power to see and touch every life, the only One who can truly heal.



When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. 
Hearing of this, the crowds followed him on foot from the towns. 
When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick...
And when the men of that place recognized Jesus, they sent word to all the surrounding country. People brought all their sick to him and begged him to let the sick just touch the edge of his cloak, and all who touched him were healed.
 ~ Matthew 14:13-14, 35-36

Monday, November 26, 2012

Thanksgiving Photos!

'Twas the day of Thanksgiving
And we'd just finished lunch . . .
The dishes were stacked
we had quite a bunch!
Chef Andy was tired -
I confess, so was I!
So off to the couch -
where we hid on the sly . . .
 As Tamara called out to the children,
"Come, Haley and Trae, you, too, Keegan!
Matt, Micah, and Andrew -
 And you, Miss Megan!
The dishes are yours - 
time for some fun!
You can't leave the kitchen
until they are done!"


The kids did just great -
it was quite fun to see!
Happy Thanksgiving to all -
time to put up a tree!

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Miss Betty

You know, I'm not sure when we first met Becca - it may have been Benin, it may have been Sierra Leone, but what I do remember is her joy in serving us this summer while we sailed to Tenerife - in the galley - and she's a nurse.  Her's one of her stories.  It's long, but so worth the time.  

 

He wipes away the tears

The first time I saw her, my heart sank at the sight of the tumor. Betty had come from Sierra Leone in hopes that we could remove the tumor on her chin that had already grown from the size of an orange to a grapefruit in only a few months. As I began to remove the bandage for the first time, I tried not to react in horror at the sight and smell of a tumor unlike any I had ever seen before. I could see her gazing deeply into my eyes, searching for a response, trying to find reassurance that everything would be ok. I looked past the tumor and into her eyes and smiled, trying to forget the nausea I was feeling over the smell. I practiced the small bit of Krio that I remembered from Sierra Leone and began to form a bond with this amazing woman and the sweet sister who had brought her to us.
Weeks passed and Betty and her sister Safiatou came every day without fail to see us in outpatients. It didn't take long for every person in our department to fall in love with Betty. Although she was timid and ashamed during the first few dressing changes, we soon grew to know and love the real Betty that was hiding behind the massive ugly tumor and the shame that came with it. Betty latched onto me quickly and became very comfortable with me changing her bandages. We had a lot of fun on her visits, as I would play my African music from Sierra Leone, dance around and attempt to speak Krio. It made my heart so happy to see her smile and watch her sister laugh, even if that meant I had to dance around to the lyrics that I could barely remember. Betty and Safi grew to be more than "patient" and "caregiver"...they became our dear friends. The hope still lit up their eyes as they prayed and hoped that we would remove the tumor and be able to celebrate the new Betty together. I pictured what Betty would look like after she had her surgery. I prayed that her biopsy results would come back negative and that we would be able to do the surgery soon.
But the tumor began to grow rapidly and along with that, the fears of all of us began to rise. From one week to the next, the number of supplies that I needed for each dressing change was mulitplying quickly. Betty and her sister noticed it too and the look of hope in their eyes began to diminish. Biopsy results can take up to four weeks to come back here and the waiting time felt like an eternity. The agony of the waiting was almost as hard for all of the nurses as it was for Betty and her sister. But seeing how fast it was growing, I began to prepare myself for the worst. Betty was losing hope as well. We began talking about her three children one day and she fought hard to hold back the tears. Her husband had died two years beforehand and her youngest child was only five years old. "Please God, don't let her die," I begged silently. What would her children do without their beloved mother? Her youngest was so little that she would probably only retain a few faint memories of her mother if she died. I could tell that Betty was thinking about her children. Her tears began to roll down her cheeks and I did my best to hold back my own as they welled up in my eyes. I had to step out of the room before I broke down. "Please God, I know you can heal. Don't let Betty die."
A few days later, our team leader came back with a stack of new pathology results.  "Betty's results are back and it's not good," she told me sadly. I started blankly at the piece of paper in front of me and read the awful word "adenocarcinoma." Her tumor was cancerous and they would not be able to operate. Betty had already left for the day and we were heading injto the weekend, so we wouldn't be able to tell her until Monday when our hospital chaplaincy team could meet with her. I swallowed the lump in my throat and said a silent prayer for God to prepare Betty's heart for the news that would follow.
Monday came and there was a sadness in the air. We told our translators the news that morning and they were struck with grief over this woman that we had prayed for together for God to heal. The moment Betty stepped in the door for her dressing change, I think she knew something was wrong. We all tried to smile, but the translators didn't want to come near to Betty because it was just too hard for them to face her and hide their own emotions. After her dressing change had been done, she and her sister went inside to meet with Clementine, our hospital chaplain. They were inside for a very long time and when they came back out, I was inside for an appointment and didn't get to see them before they got into the shuttle to go back to the Hope Center where they were staying. I was disappointed I had missed them and couldn't hug them and wipe their tears, but said a prayer for them and saved my hugs for the next day.
Betty and Safi walked into Outpatients the following day, heads hung low and sadness in their eyes. There were few words to say, just hugs to give. I began preparing the supplies for Betty's dressing change and Safiatou broke down in tears. I sat down next to her and put my arm around her and we cried together. I know that it's important to hold everything together at times as a nurse, but in that moment, I just needed to be a friend and share her tears. The tears I had been holding back began to pour out and we sat and cried together. I told her I was so sorry for the bad news and that I knew how scary it was to face losing a family member, that it was ok to cry, and that we loved them both. After a few minutes, I hugged her again and encouraged her to be strong for her sister. She wiped her tears and we began to do Betty's dressing change together. I wanted to give them a little more time to just process everything, but I had already been asked to begin the teaching process with Safiatou so that she and Betty would be ready to go back to Sierra Leone a few days later. As I explained what Safi needed to do, she mustered all the strength that she had and focused intently on performing Betty's dressing change as best as she could. She did a great job and I told that that we were now going to call her "Dr. Safiatou" and she responded with half a smile. We shared more hugs and the two of them headed back to the Hope Center.
The following day, we finished all of the teaching with Safiatou and Betty, gave them the huge box of supplies that they would use for the dressing changes at home, and gathered around them to say one last prayer. When I opened my eyes, Betty's tears were rolling down her cheeks. I brushed a tear away and thought of God's promise to wipe away all of our tears in heaven. I don't know when Betty will go home to be with Jesus, but I know she'll be in His arms soon. And when she gets there, she won't have an ugly tumor on her chin anymore....just a beautiful smile on her face and a heart full of joy...because when she enters into heaven with Jesus, she will experience the ultimate healing of the wholeness of His love.
I often find myself overwhelmed by the suffering and pain I see around me in Africa. I ask God why he allows the pain, the suffering, and poverty. My heart aches over knowing that a woman like Betty would have a good chance at life if she had been diagnosed in my own country instead of a poverty-striken West African country where the resources of chemotherapy and radiation are not readily available. I question why God doesn't miraculously heal her for the sake of her three little children and her loving sister. But, the truth is, no matter how many times I ask why, I know that I will never fully understand until I get to heaven. Maybe God's plan of healing is not for Betty's tumor to be removed, but for the full healing and restoration of entering into heaven with Him, a place where no suffering and disease can exist. Even though I may not understand, I cling to the truth that God is good and that He does what is best for His children. So, I leave Betty in His hands and rest in knowing that she is headed to a better place.
The truth is, we live in a broken world, tainted by sin and evil. The truth is, people still die every day from treatable diseases all over the world. The truth is, life isn't always fair and even if I volunteer in Africa for the rest of my life, I won't be able to save everyone. The truth is, I don't have all the answers and I can't carry all the burdens I encounter. If I try to, I will be crushed under the weight of it all and unable to move forward and make a difference in the lives of those who I can help. So I have been reminded this week by the One who called me here that I can give my burdens to Him and allow Him to carry them for me. He is the only One who is strong enough to carry them anyway.
I'm not sure what God's purpose was in bringing Betty to us, but I am grateful to have known such a beautiful, strong, amazing woman. Even though she couldn't have her surgery, I know that the last month spent with her was not wasted. I feel privileged to have been given the opportunity to walk with her through a difficult part of her journey, to love her, and to help her experience a deeper emotional healing through the love of Christ. I look forward to the day that I see her in heaven and we can dance together in the presence of our loving Saviour.

I hold onto this hope and the promise that He brings
There will be a place with no more suffering
There will be a day with no more tears, no more pain, and no more fears
There will be a day when the burdens of this place will be no more
We'll see Jesus face to face
But until that day, we'll hold onto You always
 
~Jeremy Camp~

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Theirno

Meet Deb - I met her this summer on our sail!  And I stole this from her blog . . . to God be the glory!


This man, is the patient that had the huge surgery I have blogged about several times in the last few weeks.  Look at him!!!  This is two weeks post operative and he has now been discharged to the outpatients department! I can hardly believe how well he has done! His face will continue to heal and the extra skin will continue to shrink back in the coming months.  He is eating soft food for the first time in years and loving every mouthful! What an amazing recovery and story!

Friday, November 23, 2012

It's NOT What I Expected!

Hmmm . . . all that time in Africa had me thinking that my boot and cast would look more like this, but I guess I live in a developed nation because my boot and cast look more like this:

Well, at least it would if you made the boot black instead of pink and the cast blue instead of gray!  To all who prayed - THANK YOU!  I'm doing well - not well enough to help out much with the cooking and cleaning, but well enough to direct everyone else in how to do it!  Happy Thanksgiving - just a day late!  Hugs . . .

Thursday, November 8, 2012

To God Be the Glory!

It was a successful day of surgery yesterday on the Guinean football player with the massive tumor - make that the four pound tumor!  It's been weighed and now it's gone, he's had reconstructive surgery and he's doing so well he may get out of ICU tomorrow and return to the ward.  Thank you, Jesus, for restoring Thierno's life!   

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

'Twas the Night Before Surgery . . .



This post was taken from one of the nurses' blogs . . . pray!
 
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We have arrived to a crucial moment on the Africa Mercy. It is the night before the surgery that will change our friend’s life permanently. There’s no going back. He is as fit as he can be for such a huge operation. His surgical team gathered this afternoon to go over the logistics and details of the case, carefully mapping out all the steps that will take place. It’s going to be a very long case. Please pray for all involved. Pray for the team to be alert, rested, energetic, focused, and totally relying on God for every move they make. Pray for Dr Gary and Dr John to be filled with the wisdom that comes from above to make every incision precisely and carefully. Pray for the anesthesia team to be vigilant to every nuance in vital signs, prepared to respond quickly and appropriately. Pray for the lab personal to be standing by with all the life saving blood at the ready as soon as it is needed. Pray for our friend to be at peace, trusting God to be with him all the way through. Pray for him to come out of surgery alive and well that he may give glory to God. Pray for him to have no doubt that he has a Savior in Jesus Christ. Finally, no matter the outcome, let’s all remember to praise and thank God for all He has done, all He is doing, and all He’s yet to do because He is GOOD!