Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Marietou

This is the most lovely story of one of the patients we prayed for last week and how God has been faithful to her in her life.  It's a long post by Anna, but definitely worth the time to read every single word.  To God be the glory! 

Marietou. Three surgeries down, one to go!

During my time aboard the Africa Mercy, I have immensely enjoyed caring for each and every one of my patients! However, few have captured my heart like Marietou. She came to the ship just a week or so after I arrived in January. I briefly mentioned her a few blog posts ago, but she is an incredible young woman and deserves a post dedicated solely to her and her story.  A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to sit down with Marietou and her cousin Djeneba to learn a little bit about her history and the path that has led her to the Africa Mercy. Marietou currently has a trach and is unable to speak. Through Djeneba, a hospital translator, and some creative charades, she and Djeneba were able to share a little of their story with me.
Marietou was born in a rural village in Mali to a poor family. She had no running water, electricity, indoor plumbing, or other modern amenities. According to Marietou and Djeneba, she is one of many siblings and had a very loving mother and father. When she was two years old she began to have persistent fevers and head pain, most likely malaria.  Her mother and father were concerned for their daughter but had no way to take her to a doctor or pay for medical care. Her fevers worsened. Then one day “the sickness began to eat Marietou’s nose.” Marietou had Noma, a prevalent disease in this part of the world that mainly affects small children who are malnourished and have an extremely weak immune system. It is caused by bacteria that you and I may easily come in contact with, but also easily fight off. It causes gangrenous lesions in the mouth and nose, eventually leading to tissue death. Its estimated that 90% of children who get Noma die. Noma has not been seen in the Western world or developed countries since Nazi concentration camps during World War II. Because Marietou was already sick and undernourished she was susceptible to Noma. 
Marietou’s upper lip and nose began to be consumed by the gangrenous infection. Her parents still had no way to take her to a doctor or hospital. They tried common home remedies such as putting boiled leaves on the infected tissue. The Noma continued to eat away at her oral and nasal cavities. Her family traveled with her for days until they arrived at the closest hospital. According to Djeneba, they truly thought Marietou would die on the way to seek help. When they arrived at the hospital Marietou was in serious condition. There was no way to reverse the damage that had been done, but they could stop it by cutting away to already infected tissue and treating her with antibiotics. Djeneba says that the doctor cut away the remaining part of Marietou’s mouth and nose because it was already “dead from the sickness.”
Marietou before any surgical intervention, using medical
 tape to cover the hole that opens to her nasal cavity
Marietou, although permanently disfigured, made a full recovery.  She was left with a gaping hole in her face, looking directly into her nasal cavity.  This also left her more susceptible to other infections. According to Marietou, her family showed her the utmost support and love. This is somewhat of a rarity in her society where many physical ailments are seen as shameful or as caused by demons and evil spirits. Sufferers of Noma are often abused or shunned.  Although her family always treated her well and she suffered no abuse, she was unable to go to school and seldom left her family’s compound. The outside world was cruel to her, making her feel worthless and unloved.  According to Djeneba, Marietou was always very shy and closed off, even to her family.
     When Marietou was a teenager a man who lived very close to her family came to her father and asked if he could take her as his second wife. Plural marriage is very common here. He needed another wife to take on some of the responsibilities of his compound and care for children. Her father was extremely reluctant, fearing that Marietou would be abused by the man and ridiculed by his other wives. The man promised to treat her well and in lieu of his fears, Marietou’s father agreed to the marriage. However, they agreed that Marietou would help in her husband’s compound and do the required work, but that she would still spend much of her time with her parents. Their fear of her being brutally treated and abused prevented them from giving up their daughter completely.  However, according to Marietou their fears had been in vain. She says that her husband was always treated her kindly. Since their marriage, Marietou has had three children.
       Three years ago Marietou heard of a non-governmental organization working in Guinea that might be able to help her. She traveled from her native Mali to stay with her cousin Djeneba in Guinea. The organization said they could help Marietou and prepared to fly her to Switzerland for treatment. However, her treatment was delayed because of the unstable political climate in Guinea at the time. It was very difficult to get the required visas and governmental permission to go to Switzerland. Three years passed and still Marietou was waiting. She had not been back to Mali or seen her children. They remained in the care of her parents. Then a doctor that worked with the organization heard that Mercy Ships would be coming to Conakry, Guinea. The doctor had heard of Mercy Ships before and knew that it was one of the few medical organizations working in Africa that did Noma surgery on the continent, without taking the patients to Europe. He helped Djeneba and Marietou travel to Conakry for the Mercy Ships screening this past August. Marietou was scheduled for surgery!
     As scheduled, Marietou and Djeneba arrived at Mercy Ships in late December. Her first surgery was not scheduled until February but they needed to arrive early to complete some medical testing. A series of extensive reconstructive surgeries were required in order to give Marietou a new mouth and nose.
     Marietou was admitted to D ward just a few days after I had arrived at the ship. She had been staying at the Hope Center until her surgery date, but was admitted early with persistent nausea and vomiting.  Apparently she had been suffering from frequent nausea and vomiting on and off for the past few years. As I admitted her to the isolation room and started an IV, it was evident even that there was something special about her and her cousin Djeneba. Marietou weighed in at a mere 41 kilograms (90 lbs). For someone of her height she was extremely underweight and needed some serious TLC in order to get her ready for surgery. 
     At the beginning of February Marietou had her first surgery. Using cartilage from her ribs and skin grafts from her scalp, forehead, and thigh, the surgeon was able to recreate nose and upper lip area. They then used a graft from her tongue to create a palate, hopefully allowing her to speak normally after all the surgeries are finished. Because of swelling and airway clearance, a trach and feeding tube with necessary for Marietou. Patiently she waited for 21 days with the scalp flap still connected to facilitate blood flow to her new nose and with her tongue sutured to the top of her mouth. Her skull was exposed where they took the scalp flap, and she endured painful dressing changes every other day. She continued to have severe nausea and vomiting, requiring a J-tube, or a feeding tube going directly into her small intestine and bypassing the stomach to allow for better absorption. After 3 weeks she had her second surgery. This time the surgeons disconnected the connecting scalp tissue from her new nose and moved it back to its rightful place to cover her skull. Then they flipped her bottom lip up and around, creating an extremely tiny mouth, but also creating an upper lip where there was none before. 12 days later she had another surgery, releasing her mouth slightly, but still leaving it quite small. Her tongue is still sutured to the roof of her mouth. She still has a trach and a J-tube.  In 10 days she will have yet another surgery to release her tongue and mouth completely, allowing her to speak and giving her a normal shaped mouth with a bottom and top lip. At that point her trach and feeding tube will be removed.
  Through it all Marietou has had an amazing attitude. From the very beginning, she was told by Dr. Gary that it would be very, very long road, that it might seem worse before it gets better, and that it wouldn’t be easy.  Her response to this was “I am willing to stay here as long as you are willing to treat me.” Marietou was happy just to have the chance to receive any kind of medical treatment. She was overjoyed to be seen and to be treated as a human being.  She had been denied that basic right so often through out her life, and she had often been treated as less than human because of her condition. The way in which we are treating her physical ailment was obvious from the beginning, but what has been more striking has been her emotional transformation. When she first arrived on the ship she was incredibly ashamed of her face. She would always keep a piece of tape over the hole where her nose should have been, and frequently covered it with a scarf. She went from being quite and timid, almost afraid to speak, to laughing, playing, and joking with the nurses and other patients. Her personality has begun to shine! In the midst of all of the pain she has kept such a good attitude. Of course there are good days and bad days, but you can see her positivity each and every day. She can hardly move her mouth or face at the moment, but you can tell when she is laughing at our attempts to make her smile because of the way her shoulders shake up and down. Just yesterday we had her out of her bed and she was dancing (to the Spice Girls)! Arms up in the air, dancing! Today I stopped by deck 7 while the patients were outside and found her pulling one of the nurses in a red flyer wagon!  Even though we don’t speak the same language, and very few of the translators speak her language, we have communicated much. She still has a ways to go, but I am so thankful that I have been able to accompany her on part of her journey. From the moment she stepped aboard the Africa Mercy, it was clear that she was a strong woman, but her strength, perseverance, and good humor has been a blessing to all of the nurses in D ward.
 Marietou’s cousin Djeneba also deserves her 15 minutes of fame! Djeneba is 26 years old with a playful spirit and great sense of humor. Not only has she been a joy to have on the ward, she has gone above and beyond in caring for Marietou! For over two months she has slept on a mattress underneath Marietou’s bed, helping care for her day and night. Only once in two months has she left the ship! This girl deserves big time cousin bonus points. In all seriousness, the selfless love that Djeneba has shown not only to Marietou, but to other patients as well, has been an example to us all!

 Djeneba!
I will keep you updated on Marietou’s progress. She is healing extremely well, but still struggling with some malnutrition issues. Please keep her and Djeneba in your thoughts and prayers! I will definitely post photos after she has her final surgery!
Thanks for reading!

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